Are I still hanging with crushing my country even though it is not interested in romance?

Dear Abe: I am a university student who finished my last year. There is this girl who I liked since my second year. Unfortunately, things did not come out. After I asked if we could accommodate one, she made it clear that she does not like romance.

We ended up to be friends, though. However, I noticed that we are lower and less often, and I usually exert the effort. This annoys me because we agree well, and when we stick, it is for a long time. We have good conversations and exchanged personal stories.

The last time we were together, I told her that I would leave the initiative with her, and you should tell me when she wanted to that after that. It was two months ago, and I feel that she might not ask me. It makes me really sad.

If she does not communicate by the end of the semester, should I send her a message that expresses her disappointment, but I wish her success? Or should I ask if I can meet her again before leaving? (I doubt that I will see her again after graduation.) Suppose this will return to my words about leaving her, but I do not want to feel sorry. – A fond of Indiana

Dear, amazing: From what she wrote, this young woman was trying to give you gently, but her message did not pass. She is not interested in romance with you. What do you think you will achieve it by asking to see it “again”? Speaking as an unbiased spectator, it may be embarrassing for her and painful for you. If you want to send a text message to a good message to her, this may be a better way to close this chapter of your life.

Dear Abe: I am an elderly gay man with many gay friends, but I did not go out to the family, although I am sure most of them know or doubt the sexual sexual.

I invited my cousin and her husband to a small meeting before it happened here in the city near my house. I also called some close friends (gay) who were attending the event. I am somewhat close to this cousin, but I did not talk to her with sexual sexual.

One of my friends is very open to his life, and I asked him to politely refrain from talking about that when you meet my cousin and her husband for the first time. He agreed, although he was a little surprised. Call me later “gay”. Were you wrong to ask these personal details to be part of the conversation? – Secret in the East

Dear secrecy: You suspect that you suspect that some of your family members are aware of your sexual orientation. You have the right to invite anyone who wants your social gathering, but after you have done it, you should not try to control those they are. Because you have some gay people at a party that does not necessarily mean that you are gay too. However, this may have been a lost opportunity for you to open this cabinet door a few inches away.

Dear Abe, written by Abigil van Burin, also known as Jin Phillips, and was established by her mother Pauline Phillips. Call dear Abe in www.dearabby.com Or Po Box 69440, Los Angeles, California 90069.