I Refuse to Carry the Weight of My Parents’ Retirement, No Way They Move Into My House / Bright Side

I Refuse to Carry the Weight of My Parents’ Retirement, No Way They Move Into My House / Bright Side

Mom (28f) (55F) and DAD (57M) have no real retirement plan. They have no savings, their home is not paid, and they spend as if they always have the coming money.

My father works with a very physical function and his health slowly over the years. My mother will not work. I got the degree of nursing, but it only used it for 5 years. It has anxiety, depression and chronic pain that makes hard work. Student loans also do not pay off.

My mother told me that they are planning to live with me when they are the elderlyJust as my mother’s mother does now. I tried to be nice about it. You never took “I don’t have a house” for an answer.

I did not leave my father’s house until I was 27 years old for many reasons, so I relied on them for a long time. I paid the rent when I worked. Many of my sin comes from the amount of what they gave me. If you want or need something, I got it, throughout my life. I think this is part of the problem.

They seem to always think I was taking them, although I am younger than 3 years. I have an older sister (31F), but their relationship is tense. She does not plan to take them. I have a older brother (33 meters), who just came out. He feels that he may have to take them one day.

I don’t know how his girlfriend feels about it. A large part of my brother’s salary was going to my father for rent and other expenses. Now that it has come out, they will have an additional income much less.

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