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My name is Gina. My father left when I was born, and my mother raised me alone. Years later, suddenly appeared and sent me, “I always loved you. There is something you should know.”
I ignored it. But for my amazement, my mother begged me to accept him, “This was not his mistake because it was my family that prompted him to get out of our lives. I was young and afraid, and allowed them.”
It turned out that my mother’s family believed that my father was not good enough for her. She told me that he suffers from anxiety and other health issues, and he could not even keep a fixed job. Things became very difficult, and her family agreed to help, but only if she promised to cut it.
They thought it was better for my future. Now it is full of remorse. My father lived abroad for many years, and now he has returned in the hope that we could re -call.
Get it. I really do. But I grew up without a father. I constantly lied about him and told me things that made me think that he was just a man who did not care.
Now I am asked to accept it because there is no one against it anymore? But what about my feelings? What about all the years you spent without him?
It seems as if I was supposed to forget everything and open my heart to someone who was not for me. I am afraid to allow him to enter, frankly, I don’t even know how to start. I don’t know how to trust him or how to communicate with him after all these years. I feel unfair.
What is supposed to do?
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