Dear bright side,
I recently moved with my son and Dil to help with children. But Delti always has a negative thing to say. She said recently, “If you are at home all day, I will accomplish a lot.” for me son She stood there in silence.
However, later on that night, I heard him talking to his wife in a nice but firm tone. He said , “I gave up her own routine to be here. You can show some appreciation. “
I stayed a little and heard Del Stubborn. It was a snare, but when I was about to leave because staying was wrong and pain. I heard the weakness of my son standing for me.
From the little I heard, tell my son wife How do you mean help and sacrifice for his home Everything It cannot be paid. I am appreciated and that everything I do and I will do things.
I cried almost on my way to my room. I felt confessedFor the first time in a long time. However, you are not sure if anything will already change. In most days, I feel that I am dealing with it, and try not to cause friction.
Then, a few days ago, I accidentally dropped a glass plate, and saw it. She picked up and said, “Why are you? Continue adding my problem?! ” I stormed. I was trying not to cry while cleaning the chaos.
After this accident, I started to feel like I was a burden on my family. What my son said to me deeply, but now I feel that I am intrusive and no use in my home. I want to stay and help, but I am not sure how to deal with this heavy feeling.
Am I exaggerating here? Or is the time began to draw some clear boundaries? I will really appreciate your advice.
sincerely,
Isabelle
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