I have never been told. If I put it with him or anyone in my family, they will change the issue or say that he is still planned and confirmed.
A few weeks later, my brother wrote to ask about history because it must approach, and I do not want to pay for a trip at the last minute. No response. My mom asked about the details, and said: “It is not really a engagement party, just a small dinner with the family. There is no need to go down for it.”
In the end, I discovered that, in fact, it was a big party. They rented an entire restaurant for 4 hours and there were about 80 guests: family, friends, cousins and everyone. It was said to everyone that I cannot do this.
My aunt, who was like my second mother, wrote that she was very disappointed because I could not save time to join, and I answered that I would have come happily, but I was not invited. The word quickly spread about Snub, and my father and brother tried to say it was just a misunderstanding.
It was more than a year ago. Since then, I tried to reach the bottom of the reason for not inviting me. Over the months from which I moved, “it was supposed to be just a small gathering”, to “I don’t know what happened, there must be misunderstanding”, to “it’s just a party. It is not a big problem.”
I asked my brother if he was angry at me, I thought he might not like his fiancée. Even if you don’t want me there, why was my parents fine with this? This really was not like them.
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