
My Parents Fired Me and Excluded Me From Their Will After I Got My Tubes Tied / Bright Side
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“Hello Bright side!
I am 27f, married, no children, and there are no plans to get anything. A few weeks ago, I got the tube connection. It was a decision I was sure of that for years, my husband, Nate (29 meters), completely supported him. He does not want children either.
We have agreed early that we are more interested in building our career, traveling and enjoying life without the responsibility of raising children. I never had the mother’s instinct, and I did not want to take opportunities to rely on temporary birth control methods forever. So, I went to a permanent solution.
Here where things become messy.
I am the only child of very wealthy fathers. They possess great works managed by a family in the hospitality industry. They own luxury hotels, resorts, etc. It was always expected that I will eventually take his duties.
I have been working in the company since I was twenty years old, where I was climbing my way from the middle management. I have a master’s business administration, tons of experience, and I really thought I was doing a strong job.
When my parents discovered that I might sterilize (thanks to my mother who intrude during an informal conversation with my friend at a family barbecue), they completely lost it. First, the screaming came, every speech “You kill our blood line”, then ventilated the guilt: “You are debtor to our grandchildren”, “You choose selfishness on the legacy of the family”, etc.
Then drop the bomb. Tell me that I am outside the company, and from the will. I was completely blind, as I didn’t get any warning, no discussion. I just did.
The next day, I received a legal notice to end my contract with family business. After that, I discovered that they rewrite their will and real estate plans to leave everything to my cousin Emily (32F).
Emily … well, it’s a nice person enough, but it is Sahm with four children under the age of 7 years, not a university degree, and zero experience at work. It is not directly involved with the company or is familiar with any way how it is operating. She is the daughter of my father’s cousin, so technically, but we hardly saw her growing up. The only reason they choose is because “it understands the meaning of the family.”
I am still trying to treat everything. I have been given years of my life for this company. I thought I was winning my place. Apparently, nothing of this matters unless I produce the heirs.
When he deserves, I and I am fine financially. We both work in technology and have savings, so I will not be homeless or anything. But he hurts me. I feel that I only saw a ship to continue the family name, and the second I took for me The body that was not in line with their expectations is available.
Do I miss anything here? Is this the status of “their money and their choice”, and I am just dramatic? I would like to hear your thoughts.
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