Hello Bright sideand
I My mother is single Make two jobs. for me Non -sister sister (29) She never succeeded and got everything – house, wedding, money. “You are fine on your own”, ” My parents said. I stayed calm. But when they demanded I am children for free While I went on vacation, everyone was shocked by filling my things quietly and leaving their house at the center of dinner.
No screaming. No argument. You only need to be silent – then my car’s sound comes out of the corridor.
I He spent years helping My father and sister without thinking again. When they need someone to clean after family gatherings, I did it. When they need someone to drive across the city to pick up things for her wedding, you are there. I even I worked additional hours To buy my own dress for this wedding because “they had a lot of expenses already.”
Meanwhile, they paid the price of her entire party, honeymoon, and then, the batch presented in a beautiful house. I never complained. I thought this is what things were.
But when they asked me to return to her children for free while I went on vacation – after I knew I was exhausted and struggled – I realized something: they don’t see me as a daughter. They see me as a backup plan, Unpaid help.
I did not go out. I did not explain. I just left before saying something sorry. Now they call me all dramatic. My sister wrote to me, saying, “I have changed.” But maybe I have.
I love my family, but I can’t continue to be invisible and unable. How do I move forward without burning bridges – but without returning to the same old style? I will really appreciate your advice.
sincerely,
Daniel
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