My son wants to marry a woman I hate

Dear Abe: My twenty -year -old son and adults in the college. He is a Pessbul player who is about to ask the girl who was dating back for a year and a half to marry him. My wife and I do not agree with her at all. It has countless health problems and take eight recipes per day. Because of its circumstances, it rarely has the energy to do anything but lie when it comes to our home. She used to have jobs in mobilizing groceries on the market, and she often recorded 10 to 12 miles a day. I left this job for a job in an ice cream store where you walk a little.

We had a meeting in my other son’s house, and she could not come because she was very tired. My wife sent my son a message saying, “Really? Who attracts ice cream?” The girlfriend needed to use my son’s phone and saw the message. Her feelings have been injured, and now she will not have a relationship with us. (They still expect us to pay the price of their wedding, and for gas and maintenance on his car to visit her parents almost daily). We want to support our son, but we have finished with her. There is a lot that I can tell you. Please help. – Dad, who has ended

Dear Dad: If your son’s fiancée takes eight medicines a day, she suffers from real health problems. Its fatigue is likely to be part of it. It is a shame that she cannot perform your expectations. Under these circumstances, I can understand why you will be hurt by your wife’s comment. If you want to support your son, apologize for her.

I would also like to point out that if your son is not self -backed, he is no longer financially ready for the responsibilities of marriage. His fiancée may be ready to help, but its income is limited at the moment and it can diminish nothing if it becomes more ill. Looking at the current situation, it may be better if the wedding is postponed.

Dear Abe: My brother and his wife have three adult children. When I married his younger daughter several years ago, I was not invited and my sisters to the wedding shower. We were told that it was because it was very expensive, but it still caused painful feelings on our part. I know that her other aunts were invited.

Should I say anything to my brother? I just ask because his older daughter is now engaged. I assume my sisters and I will exclude again. I still wonder if they do not like us or what happened. I do not remember doing anything for them growing or talking about them or their mother. Should I let it continue and go forward? Unpaid in Pennsylvania

Dear unintended: Instead of waiting and wondering, call your brother and congratulate him on his daughter’s association. When you do it, you and your sisters tell him to come to shower. He will tell you his response to what you need to know. If not, follow this question with a question about whether you have done anything to cause a family crack.

Dear Abe, written by Abigil van Burin, also known as Jin Phillips, and was founded by her mother Pauline Phillips. Call dear Abe in www.dearabby.com Or Po Box 69440, Los Angeles, California 90069.